Wear a different t-shirt or risk apathy

In response to:The weather... how British

Fri, 07 Jul 2006 11:59:26 +0200

I always found that by being alone I could prepare myself for NOT being alone. It's so easy being on your own and having no cares or anyone to care for. what's harder is being there for people and sharing everything and learning that they need you as much as you need them.

so alone is good sometimes

it's not preferable but it's easy :D

In response to:So she's left

Thu, 29 Jun 2006 09:07:43 +0200

Thank you. I really appreciate your advice, any advice! That's so true, it won't get better if things stay the same. Is he the wrong person though? Is this just a moment to try it and see? The resulting feelings are telling me that I'm capable of falling in love with someone else. And that's not fair on him. Time out seems to be a good option, only as long as that time is used valuably. I think any time interacting with other people, being on my own, doing things I like to do, being away from the boyfriend and the woman I met, will maybe be a telling period. I think I should write her an email to say that I'm taking time away from everyone, so that I know what is true to me, so I know I'm not just trying to please everyone else. So I don't make a mess of me and those around me. Self-understanding doesn't happen overnight, eh?!! Thank you so much for your comment - look how it's helping me!!

In response to:So she's left

Thu, 29 Jun 2006 06:49:33 +0200

It sounds like you have a lot of stuff going on in your life and its all building up.Maybe you need a break to sort yourself and your feelings out.I mean a break from the life you have now though that isn`t always easy. If you are with the wrong person things will only get worse not better.